to add yourself, click on the Event Calender found on the main page...from there you'll see threads..KK gathering is under the first thread entitled "Puppycom Oct 26, 2003 Gathering in KK"..
as for the cheras mamak divison, the thread is under Chit Chat Section...
thanks for your help but if you could please teach me more on this matter I really have trouble over here is it not like icq where u talk to your friend by clicking their name please show me how
This is a forum and not an online chat or Instant Message and therefore it is very different from ICQ or MSN. Since you are able to post message and reply accordingly in this section, you should be able to do the same in the above threads posted by hunter.