Lily Lim
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Jan 9, 2010, 5:58 AM
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Re: [GoldenAddict] I'll take you on
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I have been reading lot of posts in this forum and I must say I’ve learned from it both about dogs and human beings. Golden Addict, I’m a dog lover, I love them for who they are and I do believe in paying for quality in life which I did and will continue to do so. You preached about staying away from puppy mills / buy dogs from pet shops as if you are the savior and the rest of the world are just idiots (or suckers, your favorite name) except you. I’m against puppy mills too and I’m not writing to support any of your so called creepy stalkers. You were telling the truth with your know how but it’s quite obvious that it didn’t reach the targeted audiences, because there is something incredibly important missing here. Neither educating nor assisting them was your priority. Telling them how stupid they were was. You might protest and be upset with my comment, but before you react you should go back and read what you have posted so far. Problem starts when you do not know how to handle a little bit of success in your life. Firstly, you show no compassion for people who became victims of these inhuman activities instead you kept condemning and insulting them as suckers and calling them DUH?? Using all these offensive jargon freely on others didn’t make people listen, definitely didn’t make you more superior to others. If you genuinely care about educating them, you would have focused your energy on how you convey your messages or advice to your listener so you get the best results when they were in difficult situations; not rubbing salt on their wounds. Pay attention to one of the guys whom you advised on and who had told you to get lost if you are not interested to help and countless negative responses from others. That is a direct feedback for you and towards the end your conscience seems to have woken up a little and spoke more decently. But quickly you slipped back to your own self; unusually high self-esteem. Secondly, you mentioned realistic training for your dogs, CAUSE = EFFECT. All these feedback (the EFFECTs) from the members of the forum are the greatest realistic training you can get as a being; it’s free advice too and at the same time cost people time to post them. However, you just refused to learn that and grow up. Sounds familiar? You have repeatedly been saying why people just don’t learn or do their homework before they purchase their pets. People make mistakes in life and who gives you the right to condemn them for not having learnt? Have you not made any mistakes in your life? Notice you were condemning different individuals over and over on the same issue. Where as when you received negative feedback / posts on your comments or advice, it’s on one same issue, your attitude! Most importantly those feedback are from different individuals (new, novice, amateur, old and senior forum members). Have you ever stopped, looked and …..chose to see “What CAUSE this?” when all these so called stalkers or people who are against you don’t even know each other and have a similar opinion about you. Who is the one not learning here? Thirdly, being blunt or straight to the point can be done in a much more effective way, with less energy being spent with greater results. And most importantly with a kind heart & good manners! People will hear you when you mean it from the bottom of your heart; and you don’t even need to be loud! There are other good trainers / dog breeders in this forum who have dogs that won numerous championships / titles too but we have yet to see one like you who can’t stop bathing herself in those glories and set aside your so called principal / belief in fighting for the well being of dogs which in this case became secondary. Time to wake up, girl friend! And you will move much further in life when you choose to do that. Your mannerism training should start NOW! Have a good weekend! I'VE LEARNED - THAT CREDENTIALS ON THE WALL DO NOT MAKE YOU A DECENT HUMAN BEING. Lily
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