Jan 23, 2009, 12:20 AM
Post #25 of 25
Re: [dd5&patches] Need some advice
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1st of all, im neutral here ya (im very scared to offend ppl in forum, cuz sometimes wanna help and give advice, got ppl misunderstand then quarrel pulak . i would say acs & mel both have their points. I would not agree acs's suggestion in lying cuz dd5 has done nothing wrong and need not to find excuse to reject mommy Aaa. but acs is right about the importance of teacup following a good & responsible owner.
As for mel, I really think that dd5 need not to worry about the police cuz although dd5 cant prove to them that her fren is the one initiated giving teacup away, vice versa, the fren cant also prove that teacup belongs to her and dd5 stole it. but mel, ure also right that maybe the owner has regretted giving teacup away and will start treating teacup good in the future. who knows?
i know the case is now over since teacup is already back to the owner. just like to share my similar experience. My opinion is DD5 should just tell her fren, there is no way she can take back teacup as she was the one gave up on teacup. And for the "sue" thingy. she can go to the police but dd5 can also go to spca to file her abusing teacup. just tell her, the new parents not going to give her back teacup. ** unless she buy back hahaha**
the similar exp i refer to is : I ever gave away a dog and later i regretted and wanna take him back . because im a breeder and have lots of dogs till my neighbour complained. So i have to let go some of them. and this dog (a mixed breed-spitz, i rescued and took care for more than a yr) barks the most. So my bf decided to give away. Of course at first he doesnt seem to be happy with the new owner and i did not agree the way the new owner treat him (well, he did not do anything bad to the dog lar) but i was still not satisfied cuz i expect him to treat my dog as his child not as a "dog" and give him the best he can. the way the man raise dogs is in a very conservative way.
The new owner doesnt seem to be happy when i visit my dog. so i can only "curi curi" peep at my dog whenever i pass by his house. and everytime after seeing him, me & my bf will . and there was once the dog saw me (when nobody at home) the dog also cried and uncontrollably pee) SO SAD & REGRET till now ! However, i understand that i was the one who gave up on the dog first. SO.... im willing to pay to buy him back if the owner allowed. I know the owner likes husky very much... wait till i have money, i will buy a husky for him and hopefully he wil return my dog
sorry for the long long story, but really feel like sharing this. and for those who's thinking of giving pets away, please think twice. dun regret like me. happy new year!