amber_mae
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Aug 14, 2006, 6:07 AM
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HELP!!! MY DOG IS ALWAYS DEPRESSED WHEN I TRAIN HER!!!
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My dog, Amber-Mae, does her recall very slow. She has to be called at least twice or thrice before she comes to me. And she walks very, very and I mean very slow. She's like got 'NO LIFE'! She always look depressed and bored whenever I train her in the training ring at South City Plaza. Not just for the recall, but for all the commands. I don't know, is it becoz I'm treating her too harsh or what, i don't know...I'm trying my very best to make her happy & excited, but it just doesn't work...I want her to be successful and the best youngest puppy to pass her pre-novice test which is coming up next, next week. I've tried three or more methods to train her. First, when she was still in the puppy class, I always encourage her with her fav squeeky toy and yummy treats, it worked for a while but after that it's like, Neh!!! Anyway, she did get thru her puppy exam, thank god! She does know all her commands, she learns fast but responds very slow. She was the best of the lot! Now, when she's in pre-novice, I thought maybe being too nice to her and praising her too much, may have caused her to slow down. So, I became strict-jerk her, scold her and wack her. It did work for the heel, she's no longer lagging and forging forward but for the other commands, it's still the same. I oso felt terrible and pity for her when I did those harsh stuff to her. I broke her heart many times, and I can see she's sad and I can see tears in her eyes, ears back and tail between her leg. You know Goldens, they shud be treated softly, they're soft dogs anyway! So then I stopped... Now, in the middle of the pre-novice class, I tried to be softer but not as soft when she was in puppy class coz she's a big dog already about 8mth then. I still jerk her but not too hard and not too many times. I also try not to scold her but always correct her by just giving a light jerk and so on, so on...I'm using her fav ball in the whole wide world for training and encouraging her. But the moment she starts her training in the training ring, her happiness & exitement shuts down immediately! At home, in the park and else where, she's fine, she comes to me very fast, her eyes are bright and she's alwayz excited, cant wait for me to throw the ball. She also don't like to be pulled. I'm now so fustrated and really dono what to do anywmore. I tried the best I can. So many diff techniques but just doesn't seem to work. Is it me, or maybe it's her. Or maybe Goldens are just like that...I don't know! Or maybe I'm not patient enuf, dont think so... Her exam's coming in two weeks time, and I want her to get high marks and make it to Novice. Please, please, I have no other options. Can sumone help me? At least give me a nother technique...She just doesn't enjoy it.
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