surchinmy
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Mar 25, 2004, 1:23 AM
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Re: [SeanYoung] Aggresive or Dominant
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No problems ... no offence intended and no offence taken ... Let's concentrate on your dog ... If your dog is already having trouble responding to you ... I certainly will not suggest hitting the dog (whether with hand or object) ... that to my mind, can make matters worse ... Physical punishment of a dog, seldom solves problems ... (It may work sometimes under certain circumstances, but it takes an experienced dog person to know when & how to apply such reprimand ... so perhaps, we should simply leave physical punishment out our thinking) ... No, I do not think it is acceptable for a dog to snarl or growl at or threaten to bite its owner ... and I also do not think it is acceptable for a dog to pull madly on a leash ... The issue therefore is ... how do to you go about sorting the above out ... Acceptance: Accept that it is going to take time, effort and patience on your part ... there is no short cut ... Background: Accept that the dog is currently unsettled ... Suggestions: I make my suggestions based on and assuming an ideal situation ... you will have to consider your personal circumstances and make whatever modifications you require. (A) I suggest you have a serious talk with your uncle ... and tell him that what he is doing is making it very difficult for your dog to settle down with you. Your uncle can visit to say hello, but he should not bath or walk the dog. or take dog back to his house ... (B) You draw up a play & training programme, which you should follow diligently everyday ... For example: *** Before going to work: Feed the dog. Allow dog to eliminate. Play & walk the dog for 30minutes. Short training session: 15minutes. Please arrange for someone to release the dog several times a day from confinement during the day, while you are at work. To let dog have 30minutes to stretch its legs and eliminate. Constant confinement (whether in crate or leash) can building frustration and unecessary anxiety in a dog. *** After coming home from work: Feed the dog. Allow dog to eliminate. Play & walk the dog for 30minutes. Short training session: 15minutes. *** Rest of evening: Allow the dog to spend as much of the rest of the evening with you as possible. Let your dog watch telly with you ... sit next to you ... whatever. This is just rest time ... relax time ... belly rubs ... and quiet time together. How to play: Find out how your dog likes to play, does he like playing catch? Chasing balls? Retrieving? ... whatever works ... even if its just running around in the garden. Use your imagination ... this is just to reinforce good times with your dog. Learning to play with your dog is evey bit as important as properly training your dog ... What to train: Generic training books (if written by an experienced trainer) should be sufficient ... Train the basics first ... teach and train "recall, sit & stay" ... these are the basic commands all dogs should know and form the basis for more complicated commands. Read your training manuals carefully ... good manuals will provide you with the methods for training these basic commands. Keep the sessions short sweet and upbeat ... Don't worry about "heeling" yet ... that will come later ... concentrate on recall, sit & stay ... Do this everyday ... and you can even incorporate short recalls, sits & stay into just about every activity ... Concentrate on your basic commands ... and once you have grounded the basic commands (it will take about 14 days of consistent training to ground the commands to a reasonable degree) ... then you can consider teaching "heeling"... When you are teaching the basics, you should also be paying attention to how your dog reacts and behaves - so observe and learn about the dog's personality. In the meantime, consider getting a Halti Collar or a Gentle Leader Collar (check forum threads) to help you control the dog without unecessary tugging and pulling on the leash ... These collars are humane and will help with controlling a dog that pulls ... very effective when used properly. They are available in KL. Using treats, praise & Jackpots: Check the threads in the forum for these topics ... There are many kinds of treats available ... find a few that your dog likes ... Just remember to give small amounts only ... so that dog does not get fat. You see ... with a dog that is unresponsive to you ... it is very probable that the dog is still viewing you with some apprehension & caution ... and has not yet accepted you ... Under such circumstances, any harsh training or punishment merely reinforces the dog's caution about you ... And that is not what you desire A dog will naturally and instinctively growl at people it has not yet accepted into its life ... And your primary goal for the time being ... must be to establish a relationship with your dog ... And you need to start doing this now, everyday ... consistently. Reprimand should either be ... a withholding of treats, ... or withholding of attention ... or a firm low growl NOOOOOO ... or a combination ... Just as with people, if you scold all the time, then the scolding is not effective after a while ... So, you need to learn how & when, how to time your reprimand ... Refer to your training manuals for details ... Biting & mouthing: As for threatening to bite and mouthing ... you need to take immediate steps to curb these unwanted forms of behaviour ... Your efforts to curb these behaviour must be carried out simultaneously with play & training sessions, and building a bond with your dog ... all these efforts go hand in hand with each other and are not separate issues or problems ... Mouthing, or even growling (by themselves) do not necessarily indicate that the dog is "aggressive" ... Dogs growl and mouth for a variety of reasons. When a dog mouths, it is actually restraining itself from applying bite pressure ... and that in itself is a good sign ... For sure, when a dog really bites, you will know ... Similarly a growling dog is giving warning and that too is much better than a dog that bites without warning ... However, if a owner beats a dog for growling or mouthing (instead of properly learning how to train the dog), then the owner may very well be creating an dog that will eventually be aggressive and bite. Check the forum threads for tips on how to control growling & mouthing ... these topics have been discussed in detail ... Responsible leadership includes ... learning to understand your dog as an individual, learning dog language ... learning to understand issues from a dog's perspective ... reasonable teaching & training with firm, fair & reasonable discipline ... being consistent & patient ... Finally - don't expect the dog to start responding immediately ... that will take time ... How long it takes will be directly proportional to the time and effort you spend with your dog. Cheers ...
(This post was edited by surchinmy on Mar 25, 2004, 1:42 AM)
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